Everyone of us could be the enemy of himself by spoiling his heart, and this happen when we care so much for those who don’t care about us as much as we do about them,
when we love anyone more than ourselves,
when we give so much and don’t get back anything,
when we let our hearts get close to anyone,
when we let our happiness or sadness relied on someone’s existence,
when we don’t learn from the lessons that life teach us everyday,
when we listen carefully to the negative words which people always say to disappoint us and let them affect easily on us, and mute the positive sound,
when we close our eyes and don’t see those who love us honestly more than we love them and we don’t even care not for ignorance, but because we just open our eyes for what we want to see and we focus only on that person who even may don’t love us as much as those people do,
when we think that someone will love us more than himself,
when we think that someone will sacrifice for us or even sacrifice to make us happy,
when we let someone be the controller of our hearts,
when we try to satisfy everyone around till we fall down and this all will be at last with no appreciation from them,
when we keep standing at the same place and everyone around move on and they are busy updating their life , but we just share them their updates and support them forgetting ourselves!!!
Look at yourself and see where you are standing now?
how much time you wasted for blessing those who hurt you?
look at your heart and see how it became dark and full of depression?
see how you let everything beautiful inside you die?
count how many times you cared about yourself and made anything you love to make yourself happy? you just do your best to make them happy and forget yourself too, although they don’t care at least as much as you do!
Be careful from now, and don’t let anyone spoil your heart and your days!
Be the manager of your life and make yourself happy, because no one will do!
Clear your sight and look around you may see something inspire you, and you may see those who honestly love you and you don’t care about them. Try to care about them , because you know how ignorance hurt so much!
Love yourself at first , appreciate yourself, and value your heart, so no one will be able to shake you!
Actually, I’m not that person who is doing the best always and who is qualified to give advices, but I just got hurt many times, and many people I love disappointed me and broke my heart that’s why I decided to care more about myself, to advice everyone not to love anyone more than himself in order not to get hurt because it’s really painful.
Everyone please, take care of your heart!
“You are the enemy of yourself” were the most effective words I got from my friend, and didn’t think in its meaning till I realized that she’s totally right and I’m really the enemy of myself, because I’m the one who spoil her life, herself, and her heart!
Thank you my friend –Hagar- for pointing my attention to care more about myself, and to love myself.
I’m really so grateful for every advice I got from you!